The Challenge: Sell our Home…

A few months ago, I had one of those gut feelings. You know what I am talking about. An idea that suddenly flashes into your head. I WANTED TO SELL OUR HOUSE. The very first house we had ever bought. The house we had been living in for 12 years and in which our kids spent the majority of their lives. The house where we had just finished the basement and deck two short years ago. The house that provided so many memories (good and bad).

Despite all of that, I wanted to take advantage of the hot housing market. The income from the sale would help us with new investments and financial goals. In reality, there was much more to it. I felt we needed to upgrade where we lived, how we educated our children, and just plain get out of our comfort zone. If things are not working, you need to do something different. Do not settle on being average or comfortable. Challenge yourself to be extraordinary and get a little uncomfortable. In that discomfort, positive change will occur. I HAVE GREAT COMFORT KNOWING I HAVE MY WIFE AND KIDS AS MY TEAMMATES (THE FANTASTIC 4) Currently we are living in a 2 bedroom apartment, without any clear idea where we will be moving next. For a guy who is not know for being spontaneous, that can be scary. However, my goal of 2020 being the year I would take on new challenges has kept me focused beyond the uncertainty. We all should take on the uncertainty of life with excitement and love.

You Gotta Believe…

I still remember the night of Febuary 4, 2018. I remember leaning over to my son and daughter whispering into each of their ears the words, “You gotta believe.” It was the final quarter of Superbowl LII. My beloved childhood team, the Philadelphia Eagles were in a tight game with the vaunted Tom Brady and New England Patriots. As so many opponents before them, the Patriots always seem to find a way to win the Championship. This time it was different. This particular fan and the team itself believed it would be different and it was.

Most of life, I was filled with fear and disbelief in my abilities and talents. One of my recent goals at work was to be a published author. I felt it would be a nice achievement in building my resume and build some professional creditability. After receiving the run around from one major journal, the break through came in the Spring of 2020. My dream came true. I was a published author. In fact, the national organization that represents my profession picked up the article and placed it on their website too. A nice bonus. You gotta believe. A Young Defender believes in themselves despite previous inaction, failure, or defeat. Put the work in and your dreams will come true.

As a Young Defender, start challenging yourself and start believing in yourself and in your dreams.

Check out my article below. It was published in a professional magazine targeting Eye Doctors. However, the content can be useful to all. BTW, it is not my best picture.

https://www.healio.com/news/optometry/20200604/the-key-to-a-happy-successful-practice-people-skills-not-pupil-skills

Being a Young Defender = Taking on Challenges